We have had a hard time talking about a few things lately. Burnout is at the top of our list as a discussion topic, as is the rise in behavior incidents in schools.
It might be Spring Break for many school districts, but making it to Spring Break is a rite of passage for many school employees, teachers, and non-teaching staff alike. The energy we think we feel in Spring, the students always know. It is not just the anticipation of knowing summer is right around the corner. For education, though, this is a different energy. We have upcoming state testing, and there are rites of passage for some students who will be moving on to the next thing.
Take a Breath
Burnout is a hard topic to talk about. First, it needs to be acknowledged that being in education is a challenging profession in all aspects. Paraeducators are asked to take the brunt of the challenge for students with disabilities. And the students with the most needs are often the hardest to work with. Not just trying to get the student with a disability access to the curriculum or what is being asked, but also their needs, their emotions, and their understanding of the demands being asked of them. And even if you are not just working with one student, it can be a lot to gather and understand. And then decide which information needs to be shared with the case manager or the teacher(s) involved.
Not just trying to get the student with a disability access to the curriculum or what is being asked, but also their needs, their emotions, and their understanding of the demands being asked of them.
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Burnout in education is quite different than most other professions. Your pullback in the work environment is different. It is not just refusing to show up or being mindfully present in the day’s necessary work. It is the lack of excitement in the day.
We looked up the general signs of burnout for teachers, and this list, while not comprehensive, is a good start. If you are experiencing these, please get help from your medical team, those you trust, and your HR department. There may be resources available to help you get the support you need to recover and be a better coworker, and support for the students who have counted on you.
Signs of Burnout
- Chronic exhaustion
Getting up in the morning does not feel great. Getting to work, and you are just not responding the same way anymore. This is hard. It is not just about external life stresses.
- Dread of going to work
If you’ve ever heard of the “Sunday Scaries” or had anxiety the day before returning for your week, this is the level of dread. Normally, many consider the emotion ‘normal’. Taking this to the next level is what prohibits the weekly success of a paraeducator. This response is more than ‘I do not want to do next week.’ It is the anxiety that does not release and causes sleep disturbances, the challenges that make it harder to do your job.
- Increased irritability and frustration
The response to challenges makes you want to shout when you are normally a calm person. Even in the best circumstances, it is harder. Not just to be the person you need to be, but the limits are reached all the time.
- Reduced performance and productivity (due to stress)
How one responds during times of stress feels more like one’s response is not as sharp. You are not demanding as much information, or you are not creating as many connections for the students to be successful.
- Emotional detachment
Like your reduced performance, it is your lack of response to situations. Your motivation is not the same as it was when the school year began. That hope you no longer exist. And without that hope that you naturally have, you are not making those professional connections with other adults or even the students. Your memory is also not nearly as sharp as it needs to be. This will challenge your ability to work through the messages you need to relay and the messages you can ignore.
- Health problems due to burnout
The heartburn, the migraines, and the list continues. Your body is responding to stress in several ways because, in education, the demands never end. The one thing educators need to recognize is that, above all else, you yourself are not replaceable. While your job will happily put someone else in your position, your value is not just your job. You have a role in a family and among your friends. You have people who count on you outside of school. This above all else needs to come to mind.
What can we do?
Realizing that just about anyone in education is at risk of having burnout is, truthfully, the first step. It is not just about how much money one makes or if they can keep the roof over their family or the basics covered. While payment is a tangible way to put stress into perspective, it has not stopped the truth that, within the classroom, only certain events can occur. You exist in a school as a resource, not just for the students, but as a caring member of the community.
While payment is a tangible way to put stress into perspective, it has not stopped the truth that, within the classroom, only certain events can occur. You exist in a school as a resource, not just for the students, but as a caring member of the community.
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The most common response is ‘practice self-care’, because that is nebulous enough to mean different things to different people. However, this can also be too open-ended. Self-care is not just getting help after the job; it is also being able to put the job away for the weekend without guilt. It is about knowing the work will always be more than we expected it to ever be. It is taking that day without worrying that things will not work out.
If you are experiencing burnout, or you think you are, please reach out to a trained professional for evaluation. If you are worried you are going to cause harm to yourself, please reach out to the Suicide Prevention number in the United States: 988.
Autism Acceptance/Awareness Month
At ParaEducate, we are willing to go out on a limb and say we are very aware of the existence of Autism and the range of experiences that folks with Autism have, and the stories that are yet to be told. And it is entirely valid that an individual refers to themselves as ‘autistic’. While within the Autism Community, the debate continues with identity first vs person first conversations, we at ParaEducate will continue to use ‘person first’ identity unless an individual’s story permits us to share their identity.
The heightened number of individuals with Autism also means that the world is not prepared for what working along with Autism may mean, and for all those steps, people with Autism belong in every space their neurotypical counterparts belong. They need to have the opportunity to succeed and fail just like ‘everyone else’.
But unlike everyone else, people with Autism equally need to be acknowledged for who they are, where they meet us. They get that space and time to be who they need to be. And sometimes in our ‘hurry up and do it’ world, we forget that we are supporting young people who are learning to navigate a world that is not something they can just ‘do’.
But unlike everyone else, people with Autism equally need to be acknowledged for who they are, where they meet us.
The balance required is unique within the world as a whole, and whether or not you choose to light things up blue this month, it is something worth pondering because filling a box for the sake of being in a box is not always the same as sitting beside and allowing the box to be the catalyst.
While most who follow ParaEducate are primarily focused on the ages of 3 to 22, Autism does not magically ever go away. No disability can be just ‘grown out of’. Autism, while it does have many profound strengths (pattern recognition, detail-oriented), and some individuals consider their disabilities a superpower, autism follows an individual around their entire life.
Celebrating means also realizing that the world is richer for understanding someone with a disability, and in April, Autism. For all the challenges that one person experiences, there is also joy to experience. For every moment that is challenging, we know we have a name of a reason to smile when we go to work, and that name comes with a person who happens to have Autism. Thank you for sharing those moments with us.
Do you have any comments about this month’s blog? Do you have a question for us? Would you like to have an opportunity to pilot some materials at your campus? Find ParaEducate online here, here, here, and on our website. ParaEducate is a company providing materials, information, and strategies for people working in special education inclusion settings for grades K-12. ParaEducate, the blog, is usually published once a month during the academic school year. ParaEducate shares its findings at conferences, through its books, and through its academic adaptations.
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